5 weeks is a long time.
At the same time we have been checking off important but last minute details. We will be entertained by a harpist, Spencer has abandoned the role of teasing elder brother and will emcee and are generally the recipients of many kindnesses by good friends. Thanks to you all, you know who you are. What have we forgotten? It doesn't matter as it will happen, regardless.
Carly is incredibly calm, in spite of the long distance courtship.
Carly and Jesse have had a frustrating number of weeks as they have courted by email, text message, facebook and telephone. Carly has said that she is sick of talking on the phone. They spend hours every night talking about their futures together. Jesse and his father arrive on Wednesday and we are meeting them in Cardston so that Carly can go through the temple. Carly has informed any and all that she and Jesse will travel back to Calgary together that evening, no debate.
This weekend there are 6 or 7 other receptions that will be in direct conflict with ours. Like Scott says, "Easy Peesy, Lemon Squeezy". We will have a party for whoever can come. After the reception and weather permitting, I am going to put a fire in the firepit and we will replay every move, roast marshmallows, hot dogs, whatever and chill for a couple of hours. Hope family can come.
I haven't come to grips with losing our baby. There have been moments when the reality is almost too much. We have experienced so much the past couple of years. Carly is, in many ways, incredibly mature and ready for this. On the other hand, how can anyone prepare for marriage when the actual experience is so dynamic. I am so very proud of all of my children, this week particularly so with Carly. She has her first temple recommend in hand and is deserving of it, without doubt.
Let the good times roll....
2 comments:
May the Jackson's next two weekends be a fun filled events in life, always remember we think of you guys daily. We wish we could be there with everyone for this joyous wedding, so sorry. We also are getting ready for Sarah's wedding on the 25th. Pass on our love. May God Bless, take care. Love ya the dwyers
Wishing you all the best as Carly steps into life with her best friend. Wishing you safe travels and smooth sailing for the wedding and receptions.
Take Care,
Shelly
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