Monday, May 12, 2008

The Promised Comparison of the Tropics.

As promised a review of Mexico vs. Hawaii and time shares vs. all inclusives. One bite at a time, however.


Firstly, a summary of our vacation to Mexico and some editorial comments on our trip.


With the added stress of the past few months, an executive decision was made that a bit of a break was needed. Kristy and Lee were booked into our Lawai Beach timeshare, so the thought of a quick trip to Kauai was not to be. The Edmonton Jacksons had planned a trip to Mexico, (a favorite place for them, by the way) and we opted to follow along.


The Jacksons were booked into an All-Inclusive Resort in Bucerias, Mex., called the Puerto Vallarta Palladium. The resort is touted as 4 1/2 stars (more about that later).


We found that by watching Sell Off Vacations that the price fluctuated and we were able to secure a 2 week vacation, including airfare, accomodation, all-inclusive and taxes for just over $3000. No doubt that the ability to make late plans reduced the costs of the trip.


Leaving on April 19 in the middle of a significant snow storm was poetic. The roads were almost impassable as we made our way to the airport and we had to wait on the plane for almost an hour in order to get a push back as so many people had been unable to make it to work. We treated ourselves to a "Club Class" upgrade so we were able to go to the front of the line for check in, sit in roomier seats and had an excellent meal on board. Very nice!!


First impressions of Mexico were the hordes of sales people lining the aiport in Puerto Vallarta. We felt like we were running through a gauntlet of gremlins who chirped away asking us to look at them. The salespeople in Mexico are motivated far greater than most you meet in Canada or the States. They are paid to set up timeshare presentations, get reservations at restaurants, cruises, tours, limo rides to resorts, etc. Some of them acted officious, asking us if they could check our bag tags for security purposes. Fortunately we had been told to bypass them and look for Air Transat personnel.


A lesson learned is not to take the internet at face value. The Palladium is 45 minutes to an hour outside of Puerto Vallarta and very dated. The rooms were musty and the beds were terrible, in fact, the box springs were concrete. The bathtub had a crack down the middle of it and it felt like you were stepping on mush when you entered to shower. (We didn't even think about a bath.) Our room had a great view of the ocean, only somewhat obscured by trees. The in-room fridge kept the pop and water and tepid plus one or two degrees, only.



The all-inclusive part is an interesting concept. It simplifies the eating decisions, offers some variety but invites the party hounds to abuse the system and make themselves nuisances. The food at the Palladium was good but repetitive. Breakfasts were probably the best meals of the day as there was an option for omelet, scrambled eggs, pancakes or french toast. (The french toast became a favorite of the group.) All-inclusives usually offer an a la carte option for certain meals and we were offered 4 options for the 2 weeks. The a la cartes we chose were the beach bar-b-que (2 times, it was good), japanese (mexicans cooking japanese, think about it) and mexican (good choice).


I was offended by the drunks that populated the pool and the resort. There were a number of Canadian university students who had finished their exams and were letting loose. As the cost of booze is included in the all-inclusive, there was very little limit to the amounts consumed. The pools became noisy in the afternoons as inhibitions were set aside.



The weather for the 2 weeks was stunning. Each day there was a little breeze that took the heat of the sun. The beach at the Palladium is rock-strewn and unfriendly, so we took our sun by the pools.


As a card carrying member of the easily bored, it was difficult to just lay about, so we made the executive decision to rent a car.  This decision was made only after riding on 2 buses; one piloted by a NASCAR wannabe and the other by a hearing impaired, high octane mexican rap music lover. The rental car was great, we actually extended it as it gave us a whole bunch of mobile freedom.

Of course, being the seasoned traveling veterans that we are, the first thing we did is go scope out Costco and Walmart.  Prices in both these stores are very similar to their United States counterparts.  It begged the question how the stores can succeed with the levels of poverty that exist in Mexico.  We experienced a wonderful night on the Malicon (a concrete boardwalk along the ocean in Puerto Vallarta).  I was flooded with memories (having served an LDS mission to Guatemala all those many years ago) as I watched the families make their way along the walk. The latin americans are close knit as families and at no time, did we feel uncomfortable or threatened although GDNJ is paranoid by nature.

We found a wonderful beach town about an hour north of PV called Sayulita.  If you can imagine a movie setting for a surf show, imagine Sayulita.  It is a quaint little Mexican village with a spectacular water front, small surf repeatedly pushing on shore.  It was in Sayulita that GDNJ found herself being bowled over by an eensy weensy wave about 1 1/2 feet high.  She was stuck in about 9 inches of water, not able to regain her footing as the little waves repeatedly knocked her over.  Actually, quite hilarious. Sayulita is the type of community that would attract someone who wanted to rent a mid-term accommodation and enjoy some serious down time.  It may very well be the next hot spot in Mexico.



Alright now my feelings about Mexico vs. Hawaii.  We were a little jaundiced by the 2nd rate accommodations but really liked Mexico.  We will go back, however, we love Hawaii.  We would rate Hawaii significantly ahead of Mexico only because we (I) are easily bored.  We love the freedom of being able to hop in a car and without regard for anything, go anywhere we want on the islands.  We are particularly fond of Kauai and look forward to our bi-annual visits to the lovely south coast.  Our plan is to experience the Mayan Riviera in the future but continue to look forward to our polynesian paradise.




Thursday, May 1, 2008

A Promise of A Post



New post coming early next week comparing mexico and hawaii.  love it in mexico, have found some favorite places, the people rock but hawaii, it is really like going to paradise.

Sorry for the way it looks but internet service is lousy.  And yes, I am going cold turkey on Monday to lose a bunch of weight.


Sunday, March 23, 2008

Lessons I Have Recently (RE) Learned..

Tonight, I will meander about, ruminating on lessons that I am learning. I will try to keep on task but being as A.D.D. as I am, please grant me some allowance.

Things I Have Learned From My Grandchildren
  1. As long as you can plug your nose, Grandpa can get real close and speak right in your face.
  2. A dirty face is only upsetting to adults.
  3. Just like a little green under the nose is perfectly acceptable.
  4. Hats can be worn frontwards, sideways or pulled down tight so that you have to cock your head back in order to see.
  5. Always allow an extra few minutes after removing your socks to carefully check between each toe.
  6. Grand Dads make great monkey bars.
  7. Games end way too quickly!
  8. Princesses are a state of mind.
  9. Make-up is fun to wear.
  10. When you are going to hug, make it count.
  11. You see; hugs heal.
  12. Accidents happen.
  13. Puppies are cool but really scary.
  14. Pancakes are a great way to start every day.
  15. Redundancy in soothers and bottles is a must.
  16. Nothing is more peaceful that a sleeping child.
  17. If you have nothing to say on the phone, hang up.
  18. An open door invites escape.
  19. If you are going for a walk, why go in a straight line?
  20. No matter where you are, if someone tries to turn off Treehouse, it will be noticed.
  21. The more tired you are, the funnier silly stuff is.
  22. Chocolate makes a holiday great.
  23. Strawberries are a Heavenly Gift.
  24. and finally, for today, Mommies and Daddies are the best.
Other Things I Have Learned.
  1. Never pay retail.
  2. A mother's love knows no bounds.
  3. Winters are depressing and Spring is refreshing.
  4. A brisk walk is healing.
  5. Things will work out.
  6. Life is better if there is something to look forward to.
  7. It feels good to give.
  8. Parents love to hear from kids, anytime, even if it is the middle of the night.
  9. Along the same line, parents naturally worry.
  10. Family is soothing.
  11. Friends are a valuable commodity.
  12. 36 years is just a good start.
  13. Putting on weight is more fun than taking it off.
  14. Prayers are heard and they are answered.
There is much more, but for today, this is a good start.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Dear Jadi

A mighty wind blew night and day.
It stole the oak tree's leaves away,
Then snapped its boughs and pulled its bark.

Until the oak was tired and stark.
But still the oak tree held its ground
While other trees fell all around.

The weary wind gave up and spoke,
"How can you still be standing Oak?"
The Oak tree said,

"I know that you
Can break each branch of mine in two,
Carry every leaf away,

But I have roots, stretched in the earth,
Growing stronger since my birth.
You'll never touch them

For you see,
They are the deepest part of me.
Until today, I wasn't sure

Of just how much I could endure.
But now I've found with thanks to you,
I'm stronger than I ever knew."

(thanks to Hallmark and the CC RS.)

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Grandad's Muse

Please allow me to muse a little this evening. As is obvious I have not chosen to blog these past couple of weeks as Clare's parents have done a masterful job of keeping us each apprised of every little bit of progress in Clarita's life http://fourjacksons.blogspot.com/

Each day brings new challenges and so much progress. We have no idea what the future holds for Clare yet we have great faith and hope that it is brilliant. I, on the other hand, have learned so much these past 5 1/2 weeks.

Firstly: I am a witness to the immediate and sacrificial love of good parents. I am thrilled with Clare's Mom and Dad and impressed that they have been selected to bring such sweet spirits into this life as they have. Anna, Cooper and Clare are so fortunate to have the kind, patient and sweet parents that they do.

Jadi has set up a 24/7 watch at the hospital. Last night, the eve of their 10th anniversary, she arranged that Aunt Carly watch Clare while she and her sweetheart took time out to go for dinner. The other day we spirited her away for an hour and had a bite to eat close to the "Children's". Otherwise, Spencer brings her clean clothes, she speaks with Anna and Cooper on the phone every day, patiently listening to their stories and noises. Anna will speak with Jadi for 2o minutes at a time and Jadi waits until her little girl exhausts every aspect of her day and then coaches her on what she might do to help Grandma, Auntie and Cooper.

Last Saturday night things were grim. There had been many sleepless nights. Spencer had been late at the hospital on Friday night and then headed up there very, very early Saturday morning to spell off Jadi. They were finding that Clare slept better if they rocked her almost all the time. Saturday evening Spencer went to the hospital and held Clare until 5:00 on Sunday morning, returned home for a few hours sleep and then back to their bedside.

Only a couple of days ago, after asking permission to bring in a more comfortable chair, did the hospital staff indicate that they could find a lounge chair for them. Every bit of progress is being recognized, documented and celebrated. Clare's success at drinking has us all enthused.

Second: People really care!! It has been such a wonderful experience to feel the concern that friends and strangers have had for the welfare of Clare. People of all faiths have lifted up their hearts in prayer, pleading with a kind Father in Heaven that miracles will continue to bless this princess. I have been stopped by strangers who have asked for an update on her progress.

The numbers of people who read the Jackson's Blog is amazing. The sweet, sweet comments that are left, uplift and support this fragile family at a tough time. Buddies, tough old hockey playing, downhill racing, fast driving guys have wept with Spencer and prayed for Jadi.

Obviously Spencer's new business has taken a hit but I would like to thank State Farm and his associates for stepping up to the plate. I will take a minute to throw a plug in, as he needs a break and could use your support. Take the time to get them to give you a quote. There are many of you who have already supported him. thanks!! http://spencerjackson.ca/

Third: The medical personnel really care. The staff at the Foothills Hospital were absolutely unbelievable in their delivery of first rate help and their support of the family. We witnessed them take hours to describe Clare's condition and answer multitudes of questions. They continue to receive awesome support at the Alberta Children's Hospital. You know, many times we take medical care for granted. We complain about long waits and shortages but we've received the very best.

Fourth: Family is fantastic. You know, almost the first person to comment on the new blogs is Jen Richards. It is a thrill to me that Jadi can call her Mom out in Okotoks at 3, 4 or 5 in the morning and have a Mother's knowledgeable advice instantly there. The other day, after a very difficult night, knowing that her husband had only had a couple of hours sleep, Jadi turned to her Dad and invited him to the hospital to pronounce Priesthood blessings. Our Carly came home for a visit with family. Her first time home since her marriage last August. She has, delightedly cared for Anna and Cooper almost the whole time. Brothers, sisters, grandmas, grandpas, aunts, uncles and cousins; you are amazing. If I leave anyone out, please excuse me. I am so grateful to you all.

Fifth: A few years ago, one of our Church leaders spoke on the Tender Mercies of the Lord. He recommended that we count our blessings each and every day, that, if we take the time to do so, we will see the Lord's hand in our lives in countless ways all the time. We believe in miracles and have poured our hearts out to Heaven. Miracles have happened almost routinely. The Miracle of the Cooling Blanket is one of amazing proportion. Clare's progress is steady and sure. It will be months and maybe years before we understand her full, physical and mental potential but the fact that she is here and so beautiful, is a testament to your prayers being answered. Please continue to pray for ongoing heavenly outpourings.

Now I apologize for the length of the post, but I am overwhelmed. I do believe that Heaven is aware of Clare's needs, I understand that not all God's children will be blessed with all faculties in this life but hold out great hope for Clare's future. She has the best parents. They have proven their love.

Thank you, each of you, from a grateful grandad....

Thursday, February 14, 2008

She's Our Valentine!!


Today marks 22 years since that cold winter day in Edmonton. It has always been special to have our own little valentine. Happy Birthday darlin'.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

True Grit

Today, I spent the afternoon with 2 of my favorite women, who manifest "true grit" in the real John Wayne fashion. Now let me characterize true grit as it is defined by these 2 ladies.
I was fortunate enough to get tagged to drive today. Driving means that you get to go up to the hospital, go through the security of the unit clerk, hang your stuff in a weeny little locker, then wash your hands thoroughly up to the elbows. After doing the preliminaries and assuming that you make it into the ICU without scaring too many nursing mothers, whose primary concerns are not their modesty, it is cool time.
The first true grit candidate is only 23 days old. How is it that she can even qualify for John Wayne status, you ask? Just by being here!! Numerous medical personnel have told us of the valiant struggle that Clare went through to live the first few days. The first 3 days of her life were indeed full of miracles. The correct decisions on urgent care were made over and over again. Her outlook is unknown; time will be the proof of her abilities. Today, as I held her in my arms, I couldn't help but be overwhelmed with her strength. She has fought through a potentially disabling stroke, has almost lost her little arm to ugly, festering sores. The arm alone is obviously painful and her recovery from that is ongoing but promising. Every once in a while today, her little eyes would open and she would quietly let out a whimper. She has manifest great determination. We hope for much, much more.
We want little Clare to continue to amaze. We pray for her recovery. We are all grateful that she is here. I am reminded that it is so important to pray that our children will safely arrive.
My other special lady shared the miracle of birth with this, our 10th grandchild. Jadi is a magnificent example of persistent, loving motherhood. She has sacrificed her recovery from major surgery to be at Clare's side for many, many hours each and every day. Each night, when she comes home from the hospital, she is totally spent. Her emotions and physical strength long departed. She has suffered serious infection from the surgery, yet is pushing herself to nurse her little one and provide time with Anna and Cooper.
My head bows in gratitude for Jadi. I am so thankful that Clare has come to their home, she has the best Mom and the best Dad. My advice to to my dear daughter-in-law is that she needs to take some time to heal. We need her at her best.
One of my heroes of the week is son, Spencer. He is even tempered and kind to his other very needy children. We know they are both exhausted. Anna and Cooper are proving to be very understanding and easy to hang out with.
Thank you to all who are lifting their loads. May God bless this family.